Love is the highest elevation of Supreme Understanding, which consist of two major components; respect and commitment. Respect is knowledge, and commitment is wisdom cause you are in action to sustain and maintain that which you are commited to. Understanding is to see things clearly, the greater the understanding, the greater the clarity. Supreme understanding is the best because its crystal clear for its foundation is absolute truth. You can not build anything on a lie, no matter how much you build on that foundation, if its a lie it will eventually crumble and all that was being built will fall. Now the truth, ahhhh.... that's refreshing, for no matter how bad or terrible you think the truth may be, you can only build on it. Absolute truth is a foundation that's solid that supports everything. Lies keep you stagnated, while with the truth you can grow ! You can change things for the better or worst, and you have control when you have actual facts to build on. You have tangible concepts compared to illusions of a lie and chasing a dream. Without facts one can be a savage in the pursuit of happiness. Pursuit cause one is always chasing the lies that society tells them will make them happy- lust, materialism, vanity, etc. Yet with the truth and a determine idea, ones" building" can be as tall or grand as the foundation can support. Which goes back to the two basic components for love, which is respect and commitment. You can't have true love without respect and commitment and truth gains the two. Oh you say you're a real freak in bed? Wow me too, thanks for giving me that truth and not pretending to be someone other. Thanks for honoring my choice, I can either move forward or not, yet I truly respect your honesty, and you're respecting our foundation so that we may grow properly. Plus I maintain my position as a MAN when I Know what I'm dealing with. So if we ever run into an ex's and they got that " Oh she didn't tell you about me?" look on his face. I can give that look back that says " Yeah, she told me Mr. 1995, well my name is 2008 and our foundation is solid. Thus enabling me to maintaining my square, my truth that's in my kingdom. Just important, I need you to hear my truths as well. There's nothing worse than being lied to over a period of time. When the truth finally comes out, everything that was built during that time is suspect. One starts to question when was the foundation ever solid? This is why you can only build on the truth, he or her is the build degree. No matter how bad you think that truth may affect the relationship, no matter how upset one may get from hearing it, if the truth is always told, respect will be gained. One must truly understand the other- the good and the bad, for everything in life consist of positive and negative. If two people are always truthful with one another they will see each others positive AND negative qualities. Being a know-er of this truth and being honest with one self about this truth (does the negative out weigh the positive), enables one to have a crystal clear understanding of the other. Once you have that, you can chose to continue to move forward and build an understanding on goals, direction, precautions and each others needs, wants, weakness and strengths. All the while being happy NOW and not pursuing or chasing false happiness. In a world where everything has a hidden agenda, where nothing is as it appears for lies are being told in all aspects of life, everything appears to be a false pretense, crooked, etc, and to have a foundation built on truth with some one SPECIAL in this chaotic world, someone you can trust.....WHEW..... that is a understanding that's Supreme!
You just have to love yourself first, which is another build.
Peace
